#24: The Greatest Gift You Can Give Your Family This Christmas

Mom’s Roadmap Home Podcast with Roz K Walker

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Episode Summary: In this episode of Mom’s Roadmap Home, I’m sharing a heartfelt message about the gift of time and why being truly present with our kids matters more than any material gift. I know how easy it is to get caught up in life’s busyness—cleaning, working, scrolling, and even striving for that “perfect mom” standard—but our kids spell love as T-I-M-E. I’ll share practical ways to create meaningful moments, overcome distractions, and invest in your children while balancing the demands of motherhood.

Key Takeaways:

1. Time Over Things: Kids remember how you made them feel, not what you bought for them.
2. Presence is Connection: Being fully present means putting away distractions and intentionally engaging with your children.
3. Small Moments Matter: Even 20 minutes of undivided attention can create lasting memories and strengthen your family bond.
4. Grace Over Guilt: It’s never too late to start prioritizing time with your children. Start small, and trust God to guide you.

Timestamps and Highlights:

• [0:00] – The busyness of motherhood and the importance of slowing down to be present.
• [6:15] – A personal story: Why my son preferred playing on my quilt over his brand-new racetrack.
• [10:45] – “Kids spell love, T-I-M-E” – why our presence matters more than possessions.
• [14:20] – Overcoming distractions: practical ways to spend intentional, quality time with your children.
• [18:40] – Five actionable strategies for creating meaningful moments.
• [24:30] – Encouragement for moms feeling like it’s too late—grace, prayer, and starting where you are.

Practical Steps to Start Today:

1. Set a “No Phone Zone”: Dedicate time during dinner or the evening to put away devices and focus on your family.
2. Build Simple Traditions: Start a weekly movie night, take nature walks, or bake together to create a connection.
3. Schedule Family Time: Treat time with your kids like a priority appointment. Put it on your calendar!
4. Start One-on-One Dates: Even 30 minutes of undivided time can make your child feel incredibly loved.
5. Involve Kids in Everyday Life: Turn cooking, cleaning, or folding laundry into fun, bonding moments.

Listener Challenge: This week, set aside just 20 minutes each day of uninterrupted, distraction-free time to spend with your child. Whether it’s playing, talking, or reading together, notice how it strengthens your connection.

Closing Encouragement: Mama, childhood doesn’t wait. The dishes, the laundry, and the emails can pause for a while, but those precious requests to “play with me” won’t last forever. It’s not about being perfect; it’s about being present. Pray for wisdom, lean on God’s strength, and start today. The gift of time is one of the most beautiful ways to show love to your children.